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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Jay-Z, Chris Brown & BET




The stories are flying across blog space right now about why Chris Brown, by far the most capable performer from his generation to pay tribute to MJ, wasn't on the BET stage Sunday evening. The stories all seem to start and end with Jay-Z.
According to several stories Jay-Z, Def Jam and now Rev. Al Sharpton either vocalized their disapproval of Brown taking part in the ceremony and or threatened to pull out of the show all together. Considering Jay-Z's D.O.A. performance was one of the best all night, it would have been a huge blow to the otherwise weak show. However, when looking back on the Michael Jackson tributes through out the night, and all of the Jamie Fox/Ne-Yo performances, Chris Brown would have been a redeeming moment. Not only one of the most talented Singer/Dancers of his era, it is well known that Michael Jackson has been a HUGE influence in Brown's career.

The very scary reality for Chris Brown, who is furious with BET's last minute decision, is whether or not he will be able to see his career through this turmoil in the long run.

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Monday, June 29, 2009

Series: Hip Hop

Searching For The Pulse Of A Dying Culture #3: Deams

A Re-tweet by Dutch MC, @DEAMS was all it took to get me started on this twitterview : "Hip Hop is NOT dying its just evolving, Embrace change." If you follow me on twitter, you know that I have some pretty strong opinions about the music industry, hip hop specifically (from a fans perspective of course). I'm on a journey looking for the exact fork in the road that led the industry so far away from its starting point. I often throw questions out onto the twitter field looking for different ideas on why things are the way they are. This time around though, I was on the receiving end of the pitch.

@MsBlckSummer: What have been the most sever changes in your opinion?

@DEAMS: On the positive side, more media exposure, it's created a lot of jobs!
@DEAMS: On the negative side, there's a lack of respect for the culture. There's a lack of creativity.
@DEAMS: What's your opinion about any changes
(For the record, up till now no one had asked my opinion
@MsBlckSummer: I think there is a major lack of respect and care on the industries side, for the culture, the craft and the fans
@MsBlckSummer: It's become about touching pocket books instead of touching minds. Few artists are challenging listeners to see beyond their own range of sight. @DEAMS: Very true! That's what happens when business becomes more important than creativity, money is the root of all evil!
@MsBlckSummer: So who is responsible for returning it back to substance? Are the masses interested in that anymore or has consumer demand changed also?
@DEAMS: It will get back to substance eventually, when people get tired of hearing the same thing over and over again. But it takes time.
@MsBlckSummer: Also, what parts do you think have remained in tact? What hasn't changed, and is that good or bad?
@DEAMS: The part that hasn't changed is the power and influence a lot of artists have, but most just don't use it for the good
@MsBlckSummer: Influence is always dangerous in the wrong hands.

Is music changing? Yes. Without question. Right now it's safe to say it's an industry of cool. And for some, that means it is dying. While the hip hop I knew growing up exists only on my iTunes, I am hopeful that there is something new, exciting and real just around the bend. The industry is being led there by a new generation of drivers, that's certain. But sooner or later hip hop will end up right where it's supposed to be. Where it's always been for me, the mind, the heart and the soul of it's listeners
Many thanks to @DEAMS for his participation, and insight. For more on Deams, check out his site DeamsMusic.com.

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Sunday, June 28, 2009

Series: Hip Hop

Searching For A Dying Cultures Pulse #2 : TiJean


As I continued my journey these last couple of weeks through the history of Hip-Hop, going so far back as The Last Poets, and Gil Scott-Heron (I'm hoping to actually meet the Watts Phrophets soon) to my highscool days of Outkast's Atliens and Aquemini, Lauryn Hill's Miseducation, Common's Like Water For Chocolate, Jay-Z's Hard Knock Life, and many others, I think about the days when albums were something to look forward to. These days an artist can drop singles for months before a compilation of them is released, and if there is an album every song is still just a single. Go to any social networking site and just about every unsigned artist has some version of a mix tape available for free downloading.
I have downloaded several in the last couple of weeks. So again, on a Saturday evening I posted a question to twitterville : "Are albums going out of style? Is it all about the mixtape and single?" Find out what @TiJeanOnline had to say to that.


@MsBlckSummer: Are Albums going out of style? Is it all about the mix tapes/singles?

@TiJeanOnline: Probably...every artist needs mix tape these days! LOL. Mine is droppin on Monday! iAmHipRock.com

@MsBlckSummer: What is it that a mix tape does for an artist that an album doesn't?

@TiJeanOnline: Extra work, promo, Free, more material -- it's a true test of talent for labels and consumers before they buy. It gets them interested.

@MsBlckSummer: Do you think a mix tape risks the integrity of your music by not being a collective body of work? How many mix tapes are too many?

@TiJeanOnline: Well if you approach a mix tape as a creative collective body of work you should never be worried.

@MsBlckSummer: Very True. I feel like mix tapes have such a different vibe compared to an album. Do you think artists are their realist or faker when putting together a mix tape?

@TiJeanOnline: Now I think most of them are gonna be real and all out if they're great artists. It's our time to be creative and do whatever. But if they are true artists they will be even more original and creative on their REAL albums.

@MsBlckSummer: What will your mix tape say about you as an artist?

@TiJeanOnline: My mix tape will say that I'm extremely passionate about music, creative, and unafraid to show the world my heart and soul.


Times are changing when it comes to the music industry. I know mix tapes have always been a part of the industry, but it's hard not to feel like with the number of unsigned artists out there, the circulation of mix tapes has also increased. It's also now much easier to push a mix tape when you can do it from behind a computer screen. The mix tape is a necessary marketing tool for many artists tryna break out on the scene, now more than ever. However, true artistry can be compromised when one drops mix tape after mix tape. The test is whether or not the album ever follows, or even has to follow.
Many thanks to Ti'Jean for his participation. To find out more about him go to IAMHIPROCK.COM.

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Saturday, June 27, 2009

Style Icon: Farrah Fawcett


Farrah Fawcett lost her battle with Cancer Thursday, June 25th just hours before Michael Jackson. An actress, style icon and 1970's sex symbol, Farrah Fawcett has always been most known in my mind for her massive hair.
The very definition of sexy, for those who believe it comes from within, she always photographed so naturally. Calm, casual, real, yet with that tiny bit of something that makes you want to know more. Know what goes on behind the pretty face. The exact vibe all woman want to have radiating from them. Not many pulled it off like her, not many will accomplish it. She will be missed and forever iconic.














































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Hip Hop is Back Again

Talib Kweli + Hi Tek-Reflection Eternal -Back Again-Vid Premiere

Talib Kweli & Hi Tek are back again. Check out the new video from the duo, Reflection Eternal - 'Back Again', and then go straight to iTunes and pick up the single.
The last album we got from Talib was Eardrum in 2007, where he came with an insane 21 tracks. No one else releasing around the same time came that strong. I remember having the entire thing on repeat, and never skipping through the songs. Each one was hot; Everything, Say Something, Hot Thing and Oh My Stars being among my personal favorites. Kweli also released Liberation, a collaboration with Madlib, which was available as a promotional free download the first week in 2007.

This single is a reminder that there are still artists out there bringing fyah. Not just commercial, throw away tracks that you wont listen to a year later. True classics. Like they say .... " You Can Like Rap Again..." And what good news that is. I like all hip hop fans are eagerly awaiting the album drop from this genious duo.

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

The Sound of Time: Michael Jackson pt.2

The passing of Michael Jackson earlier today, caused such pandemonium on twitter that for what felt like the longest minutes of my life I could get no updates. He was such an inspiration to so many people, young, old, black, white, rich, poor, that the impact of this loss is unmeasurable. In this post I have captured some heartfelt messages, memories, and thanks posted this evening on twitter below.




Errin Taylor
I remember hearing "Lady in my life" for the first time, MJ's voice and lyrics evoked so much emotion in me, what a powerful man.

Erykah Badu
It's taken me a moment to grasp this ... I understand life and death are part of the same magnificent cycle. But ...

.. I literally stopped and broke down When I received ' that' text . Mike's music lives in my DNA. It's bigger than tabloids...

that music shaped me . The frequency is real My heart and artistry are truly influenced and forever impacted. ...

Thank you Micheal for your hard work , dedication ,philanthropy,& the sacrifice of your young spirit . Your vision and
imagination live ..

Thru us. I don't know what to say .

When I hear his music it takes me back to a time , place , smell , event ...

Wyclef
Michael Jackson was my music god, he made me believe that all things are possible and through positive music he will live forever

Solange Knowles
Thank you Michael Jackson for being my FIRST of many! My mother took me to my FIRST concert, I was only two years old. I fell in love.

Laruen London
Michael Jackson?!. It feels like someone called me and told me a family member passed away. Since I could remember...there was always MJ

Jean Grae
Thank you Michael,for every note,every word,every feeling,every dance,every piece of magic you gave.Thank you.

Marvet Britto
This is the SADDEST day & the GREATEST loss of the most influential global superstar the world has EVER SEEN! He has the angels dancing!

Dj Dnice
I am devastated by this.

I never curse on twitter. The only way I can express how I truly feel right now is that I'm totally f*cked up over the passing of MJ.

Jessica Brown
today the music and the world lost a huge icon. didn't fully hit me until i heard his music.he will be forever missed


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The Sound of Time: Michael Jackson pt.1


A legend passed away today. Michael Jackson, the King of Pop was rushed to the UCLA Medical Center after paramedics, responding to a 911 call from Bel-air mansion, found him in a coma there. The death of this superstar was not only unexpected, but devastating to millions of fans across the world. Michael Jackson's body of work transcended race, class, language, and culture boundaries. He was an inspiration to all who listened to his music. And as a I look back in my own life, his music was the backdrop to many time blocks of my childhood. Join me as I remember the sound of time, featuring Michael Jackson.

I was born in 1982, so Michael Jackson was a well known talent long before I was ever even thought of. Having changed the music industry forever with his certified Double Diamond album, Thriller. I don't think it was something I was supposed to watch, I remember having minor nightmares. But eventually I was trying to imitate all of the moves. I remember feeling like it was unbearably long. It probably felt equivalent to a movie. All the same, this was the first I had heard of Michael Jackson. And not in the sense that I had never heard a Michael Jackson record before then, only that my first memory of him, of knowing what he looked like was when I saw Thriller on MTV.

Songs like Billie Jean, Beat It, and of course Thriller remind me of when I was just a young child still living in a suburb of Chicago. Smooth Criminal, Man In The Mirror, Leave Me Alone and The Way You Make Me Feel were what it sounded like right before we left for California. The last time my parents were together as a couple. The start of new experiences. California had a sound all its own. Round 9 years old time sounded like Black or White, Jam, and my personal favorite...Remember The Time. When I saw that video the feeling of pride to see a video filled with beautiful black people, Royalty at that was overwhelming. My appreciation for his originality, and talent beyond measure began to develop and I knew that he was the best.

During junior high school I was all about You Are Not Alone, the notion of love was something I was only just becoming aware. One of my favorite songs now is P.Y.T. (Pretty Young Thing), it's even my bbm nickname. With the love I have for music, there isn't any other artist that can hold a place in every moment of my life from the very beginning. He will forever be a legend.

To the Jackson Family my heart goes out to you in this time of mourning. Know that you are not alone.

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Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Arise Fashion Week

Johannesburg, Africa June 2009





























South African David Tlale, and Nigerian Tiffany Amber win the joint honor of Designer of the Year at the inaugural Arise Fashion Week this June. Both Designers will be showing at New York Fashion Week this September. These are a couple of my favorite looks from the event as well as the winning designers. For more coverage of the shows visit Bellanaija.com.



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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Summer Sounds...

Like Mix Tapes.

In the past week countless mix tapes have been promoted via twitter. Tonight I am going to share with you two that you need to have in your iTunes rotation, if you don't already.


Coming to America from Scoob Doo and Wyclef

First released December 2007, not only does this mix tape take you back to Mona Lisa days when Wyclef spit, yes Wyclef is a rapper, but the thing has like 32 tracks! Yeah, that includes intros to the different tracks, but take those out and you're still looking at 20 legitimate tracks. Tell me who these days can come with that? You're lucky to get more than 10 tracks today. I would have been happy to go back to the days when a CD like this could cost between $15-$20...and happily forked over the cash. Featured artists include Lauryn Hill ,The Fugees, Raekwon, Lil Wayne, Styles P, and others. This re release was for the newbies who only know Wyclef as a guitarist, singing hooks. Wyclef is for real in my opinion and I was glad to see some excitement around this again. Mixed by Scoob Doo, this is a summer must have.


Elec-sick Circus Common and Los Angeles Leakers
Retrospect For Life was this first Common song I ever heard. From that moment I was a fan. And if you appreciate the level of poetic originality found in his entire body of work than you will appreciate this mix tape. An anthology of his career, this download is an hour and eighteen minutes of history and good music. The closest thing you can get to time travel, the sound of each song is so distinct to the time in which the work was created. From 'I Used To Love Her', to 'Come Close', to 'Respiration' 'G.O.D.' and 'So Far To Go' this could have been labeled the Best Of Common and it wouldn't have been a lie. Smooth listening, and real hip hop the entire time.





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Chris Brown Pleads Guilty


Chris Brown entered into a plea-bargain this Monday, and in exchange for a guilty plea to felony assault, Brown will receive 5 years of probation, be required to attend domestic violence classes, and complete community labor.

There a couple of questions here. One being whether or not justice was served. According toPEOPLE, their readers "overwhelmingly said justice wasn't served." Others are pleased he didn't receive any jail time. Second question is will his sentence be enough to reform this violent behavior? What does it take to turn off the triggers that make a person react to a situation violently? Some say counseling, some say religion, some might say that it isn't possible, because someone who witnesses abuse in their home as a child is much more likely to become abusive as an adult. Another question that seems to be stirring lots of discussion is how will this effect Chris Brown's career? It seems to be the more interesting question to ask; perhaps it's the easiest/safest question. Will his fan base of young women forgive and forget? Does the craft and celebrity status supersede any wrong doings? Or, will this be the end for Chris Brown? I guess we'll know the answer if we see him on something like I'm A Celebrity ... Get Me Out Of Here, or maybe For The Love Of [Chris Brown]. Honestly, I don't think this will have much effect on his career at all.

The question I have been asking myself is in regards to one more piece of Chris Browns plea-bargain sentence...the '50 Yard Stay Away' clause. While this is obviously not conducive to the professional field they both work in, it seems pretty reasonable for a case in which one person attacks and violently assaults some one else. So, the question...why did Rhianna not want the clause to be part of the sentencing? It makes you wonder what is really going on. And it pisses me off.

In the end we have to ask what sort of lesson is this for the youth? That it can happen to anyone, even celebrities, and the consequences are not prejudice? Hopefully that it is unacceptable no matter who you are, and how much money you have. My kids are too young to even care to know about the whole mess. But I wonder -- how are parents helping their teenagers understand this in real life?


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Monday, June 22, 2009

Series: Hip Hop

The Soundtrack To My Adolescence

I have been sitting in front of this monitor for about 2 hours now. 2 hours in front of a 22" touch screen monitor hoping that inspiration would reach its hand from within the screen and touch me. I wanted to write something witty and interesting. But I got nothing.

So instead I decided to go back. I guess some might say I went way back. Doesn't seem like that long ago to me. But it was certainly a different time. I am talking about hip hop in the 90's.

When you could listen to an album and learn something. It was a time when those albums actually got rotation on the radio. I'm talking about Tupac, Notorious BIG, Black Star, Gangstarr, and Common before Electric Circus, Talib Kweli, Mos Def, Freeway, Ghostface Killah, Method Man, Red Man, Wu Tang Clan, The Pharcyde, Lauryn Hill, Erykah Badu, Lil Kim, Foxy Brown, Missy Elliot, Queen Latifah, The Fugees, Wyclef and so many others. This was a time when hip hop moved, and made you move.

Most of the stuff you hear today just doesn't do that. It's more about flashy lights, shinin ice, fast cars, and having the most chicks. Don’t get me wrong, some of that existed back then as well, but it was the exception and not the rule. In high school I went to more concerts than an underage girl should be allowed to attend without adult supervision. And I and my home girls paid for those tickets ourselves. I worked from the time I could get a permit not so that I could buy new shoes, or a new outfit, but so that I could go see the Hard Knock Life Tour, Summer Jam twice in high school, The Spitkicker Tour, Wyclef and Black Eyed Peas at UCI before they had a female lead, De La Soul, Pharoahe Monch, and The Roots at Universal. I've seen Common at least three times, Kanye twice, Nas, and I've been lucky enough to have legends like Slick Rick, and Doug E Fresh show up to some of these performances. I've seen Biz Markie, and countless DJ's. These were the days; when the release of a new album was something people looked forward to and actually bought from the local music retailers.

What was the last concert I went to you asked? Well actually it was a Mary J concert at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles. A year ago I think. Times have changed and with it the music. I don’t know if it’s that we don’t live the way we used to. We aren't as honest as we used to be or if the focus is no longer on innovation. Whatever the reason, I'm just glad that the soundtrack to that time in my life sounds so real, so raw, and so full of emotion. See below for a list of some of my favorites.











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Saturday, June 20, 2009

Series: Untitled Excerpts From My Life



6/15-6/19

Obviously I don’t work in the field of music. And still it seemed to completely overcome my life this past week. I worked on my first little twitterview, which was nothing more than some back and forth Q&A’s with an artist by the name of Quanstar. And though it was only maybe 7 or 8 questions, I still felt the need to blog it. And so I did. I wrote it over several times before posting it. Wanting to sound informed, and needing to give it purpose, I had to figure out a write around for the conversation. Tie it back to something bigger than my own curiosity; ‘what is happening to the culture of hip-hop’. I finally finished it mid week, and the sense of accomplishment was overwhelming. Again – no big deal or anything, but still huge for me.

You see I daydream about writing. Besides art classes in high school, English was my best subject. And not so much literature, though I loved to read, it was composition that was more my thing. I loved to write. Old coworkers were always taken aback to discover that I had gone back to school for a degree in Communications/Journalism (though not finished), instead of Fashion Merchandising. But why would I pay an institution to teach me what I was already being paid to do? I always thought that when I retired I would contribute to a fabulous magazine as a fashion journalist. I am slowly beginning to rethink that. And to be sure about my second thoughts I have decided to do some research. Finding and downloading albums by those considered to be the forefathers of hip-hop, The Last Poets and Gil Scott-Heron. If you can’t tell my genre of obsession is hip-hop. I have always been drawn to it. I am sure it has something to do with the images of a life I never experienced as a black person in America, living in the suburbs of Southern California most my life, that so intrigued me. There was a level off truth to be found in the culture of hip-hop that was not present in the peach track home developments of my neighborhood. I have decided to journal the experience of this journey through the life of hip-hop and will probably be blogging it as well shortly.; until then though we should probably get back to the now.

I had fallen miserably sick this past week. You know when you get the little tickle in the back of your throat, the precursor to something that is going to be anything but fun in the days to come? Yeah well I had the little tickle Monday morning. It had returned from two weeks prior when I thought I had killed it with a simple cup of tea (I later found out that He had spiked the tea with a shot of tequila which had provided the delusion of being cured). Of course I am the office martyr. I’m the one who refuses to stay home, spreading my germs, as a consequence, all over everyone and anything I come in contact with. Refusing, for whatever reason, to believe that my sick time is available for me to use at whatever time I may fall ill. It can't help that I sit directly under a vent that consistently pumps out sub zero air all day. It was not a pretty week. I felt awful day after day, getting worse still, but with far too much work to get done. The getting worse part was the worst part; especially after getting an email on Thursday morning that I was required to now attend the weekly business review meeting every Friday effective immediately. Perfect. Another meeting to attend. I swear I go to so many meetings that I have probably a total of 16 hours in a 40 hour week to get actual work done! The silver lining I suppose, as it was pointed out as such, was that this would be good exposure for me. And that at least was true.

The best part of the week by far, was when my cousin decided on a whim to come up Thursday night. She is visiting from Seattle for the summer and we had been so anxious to catch up. Hilarious, joyous, heartwarming, comical, entertaining, all could be used to describe the few hours we spent together. Funny how more often than not, you really don’t have to go anywhere to have a good time, when you’re with people you love, who loves you back. I am always surprised to re-discover that I am 8 years her senior. God I am getting old. It was midnight before she decided to head out. Making plans to go shoe shopping, so that she would never again make the mistake of wearing the Tracy Reece dress I gave her (bronze in color) with black flat sandals again, for Saturday afternoon. Perfect, because shoe shopping is one of my favorite things to do. It never matters how out of shape you are, or feel you are, a great pair of pumps always look good on your feet, and pump your esteem by like 100 points instantly. New shoes are better than ice cream after a break up, the perfect finishing touch to complete an amazing look, the best reward for yourself after a job well done etc. So I was excited for Saturday as soon as the plans were set not knowing that those plans were going to fall through the next day. At least this time she is here for longer than a week.

Anyway Friday was horrible, the worst day of the entire week. I woke up, tried to do my hair, and then sent my boss an email calling out, and climbed back into bed. I think I have wisdom's coming in because now, for no other apparent reason, my gums are completely raw. Did I go to the dentist you ask? Absolutely not. I am terrified of the dentist. A fear acquired after visiting about a year ago and discovering that I needed not one but two root canals. I have decided of course to bear through the pain for as long as possible. I know it’s not smart, but it is what it is. It makes sense though that my ear is now in pain. As long as it makes sense I am okay. I can live with the rest. I hope. I did start painting though. I’m really excited. If it turns out well, I will post it. If not, it will be like it never was.





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Sunday, June 14, 2009

Series: Hip Hop

Searching for a Dying Cultures Pulse #1

I recently came across a quote by the great Doug E. Fresh where he said, "Hip-Hop is supposed to uplift and create, to educate people on a larger level and to make a change." This quote expresses in words the very essence of Hip-Hop. And while there are many in the game who continue to stay true to the roots of Hip-Hop, these days, there are fewer societal narrators with the release of each new album, especially with the countless wanna be superstars pushing their zip files on-line.

So this past Saturday, looking for a connection between social media and what seems to be the dying culture of Hip-Hop I posted this question on twitter, "Did the digital download kill Hip-Hop?" I got more than just a response. I engaged in my first twitterview with Quanstar, emcee/movie producer and First Team Music CEO (among other titles). The Compton native was first exposed to pioneers like Run DMC, The Sugarhill Gang, The Fat Boys and Kurtis Blow through his cousin. And while a fan, it wasn’t until seeing LL Cool J’s performance of ‘Radio’ in the film ‘Krush Groove’ that he became a true Hip-Hop Head. It was at that point he knew that Hip-Hop was who he was and what he wanted to do. 4 solos projects, the Hip-Hop film ‘Do It!: Documentary’, the book ‘Water From Turnips’ and eight national tours later, Quanstar considers himself the American Dream, “[I] am a firsthand example of what happens when you man-up, work hard, sleep as a hobby, and then show someone else how to do the same.”Read below for the Q&A and check back for more discussions like this.

Style ‘N Real Life: "Did the digital download kill Hip-Hop?"

Quanstar: "Absolutely not. It's just another step in its evolution."

Style ‘N Real Life: "I hear you, and don't get me wrong, I love a download. It used to be 'video killed the radio star' the first step towards image and away from message. How is the digital age affecting music, for better or worse?"

Quanstar: "The same as the expansion of anything else. It causes a traffic jam until someone figures out how to switch lanes properly."

Style ‘N Real Life: "So were in a traffic jam now. When it clears up, which direction does Hip-Hop take?"

Quanstar: "It takes whatever direction the people want it to go. The digital age gives the cat with no budget an outlet. Personally it's made it easier to create and reach my fan base."

Style ‘N Real Life: "I understand that. It has made it easier for me to find new artists. I also find a lot of unoriginal hip-hop spammers."

Quanstar: "But that would happen without the digital age."

Style ‘N Real Life: "True, but it would be with less frequency. Without a filter you get flooded, and it takes more time to sift through."

Quanstar: “Yeah but the ones that really want it will find a way to get to you."

The fact that social media has made it that much easier for the unknown talent, lacking in a big advance from a major label, to reach a broader scope of potential fans is undeniable. I think all artists are grateful for the opportunity that these advancements have been able to afford the underground, indie kids, no matter the art form. However as always, the guy who takes advantage of these tools, by pushing unoriginal material, and calling it inspired, overshadows the former and is creating a tainted image of one of the most influential movements in our lifetime called Hip-Hop.

Turn on the radio and you get a mind-numbing rotation of ringtones and club bangers. So if it's not the digital age that's killing it I ask a new question, "What has happened in the mind set of society to cause the shift in Hip-Hop to be used as a gadget for selling a façade of shiny trinkets and overflowing pimp goblets, instead of the educational utensil it used to be in raising social awareness?"

Stay tuned for more on my journey searching for a dying cultures pulse.

Many thanks to Quanstar for participating in this discussion. To learn more about his current projects visit First Team Music. To get in on the conversation follow me on twitter and share your thoughts.

The opinions expressed in this series are my own unless otherwise noted. The discussion on the changes that have occurred in Hip-Hop, good or bad, may be controversial, but, they are by no means intended to bash, insult or otherwise attack any artist regardless of my personal feelings on any body of work, nor on the genre of Hip-Hop itself as a whole. I have a great deal of respect for anyone willing to put his or her work out into the world of subjective criticism and judgment. This series is meant to provoke thoughtful dialogues on the subject matter, and inspire new points of view. Love and respect to all.


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Series: Untitled Excerpts From My Life

6/13-6/14

Word to the wise for all the parents out there with more than one child…going to the movies with more than one child under the age of 5 without your spouse is an equation for disaster, exhaustion, and frustration. So I wasn’t completely alone when I took my kids to see UP this Saturday. My sister was with us, but honestly she sometimes makes me more anxious and flustered over stuff than I would be alone. Exhibit A; as I am shuffling for my phone she is rushing me to catch up and push the gi-normous stroller that I should have left in the car. Results of this impatience, and my anxiety; I lose the 4 tickets that I bought the day before for a mere $26! That meant spending another $37 on new tickets! Fine, my kids were so stressed that I would turn around and not let them see the movie, and I just couldn’t do that to them so I forked over the cash. Never mind the fury that built up as I noticed the girl next to me buying movie passes with 4 discount tickets identical to the ones I had lost. Knowing that anyone could pre-buy tickets like that, and being past the point of confrontation especially in front of my kids, I ignored the suspicion and we made our way into the theatre. She took the girls to the potty hoping to avoid mid viewing bathroom runs, and I stood in line to buy popcorn and soda. Ok and Raisinets. We made our way to the movie and because of the huge stroller, we had to sit in the lower level, you know the level at which you are forced to look up, and occasionally scan left and right the entire time to see what is going on. That was a minor inconvenience next to that which we had already endured just to get there. The short film started, and I gotta say Disney-Pixar does an excellent job with those things…no words, yet you know exactly what is going on! It was super cute; I won’t spoil it for those of you who have yet to go see it. The problem was that once it was over, girl number 3 thought it was time to go, because the movie was obviously over. It took some convincing for her to believe that the movie we came to see was only just starting. After readjusting her in a seat obviously not meant for children her age, I was hopeful that we would be done with any other outburst for the remainder of the film. I was wrong. She was up and down, and talking in her ‘outside’ voice about how she was ready to go home. He has had to leave the movies before halfway through and I refused to go there. She sat with me, pretending she was so bored that she wanted to take a nap. That was fine with me as long as she was quiet and still. It didn’t last long, apparently the Capri Sun juice was too much for her little bladder and we had to make a bathroom break. Luckily that was the last disturbance to our viewing pleasure, and that of some of the audience as well I am sure. All-in- all, the movie was great, and I was happy that we had been able to get through the whole thing with smiles. It was after the film that I think I pushed my luck, and while I won’t go into the heinous details of shopping disasters, and ice cream melt downs, I will say that for children of their age are capable of only one lengthy good behavior activity at a time. I failed to consider the fact that they had been required to sit quietly for almost two hours straight, and then I require them to sit through my sale shopping time just as quietly; shame on me. I know. I was just glad that it was a Saturday, giving me Sunday to recoup. I was able to come away with the Tribe Called Quest LP, The Low End Theory (when did Urban Outfitters start selling vinyl?) and a pair of $5 high-waist crops! It’s like they say, all’s well that ends well.


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Saturday, June 13, 2009

Series: Untitled Excerpts From My Life

6/8-6/12

Who decided that the weekday should start on a Monday? What’s wrong with a Tuesday anyway? Mondays seem so unproductive, they’re slow, and jam packed with deadlines and reports that can’t be completed in time. The office is always filled with half sleep co-workers trying to fake their excitement about having made it to the exact same place this Monday they were in last Monday; the office at 7am! The theory of a 7am start day is great, but for some reason the fact that it is mandatory on a Monday, and then not allowed any other day of the week takes some of the novelty out of getting off at 4 even one day out of the week. So what did I do this week besides twitter too much, download too many free tracks, complain way more than I would like to admit, and get ultra frustrated with Her? Well believe it or not I got a lot of work done. Besides that Tuesday thru Thursday was spent falling in love with Him all over again. He finally said what I had been thinking; it somehow feels like we’ve just met all over again. I hope that it happens often. My kids are just so beautiful, Thursday my middle child came with my sister to pick me up from work, and there was a slight change in her features. She just turned four in May but only now did I start to see the kid emerge from what use to be the sweetest baby face. How quickly they grow up. As soon as Friday came around I breathed a deep breath of relief. A day I would finally be able to get some work done. I had only one meeting as opposed to the new trend of 5 in a day. They were both out of the office, so they’re wouldn’t be any last minute to do’s or a million trivial questions to be answered. Before anything crazy could happen though, there needed to be lunch! The one hour in a day on the one day a week that my girls from the office and I left the gray building to enjoy lunch cooked by someone other than Lean Cuisine. It was especially interesting this time around. Friday lunches always follow the Friday Business Meetings, and apparently it had been very eventful this week. Lately there has been a fill in representing our department, just one to represent the two major classifications in the business. Obviously the rep was not me, nor has it ever been, and there is not gripe in me about that. I was irritated to discover that I am now expected to attend as no one is currently capable of speaking to performance in such a way that the entire audience can understand. This almost ruined the rest of the day. Then I convinced myself that She would never let herself be undercut this way without a fight, and so there was still a chance that I would get out of yet another meeting I did not need to attend. Besides that lunch was quite entertaining. The hour went by way too quickly. The one meeting I did need to attend was to review some budget numbers, which had been dismissively approved by Her. Of course changes needed to be made; time will tell if they stick. By the end of the day though I was able to complete a trial run of a major project I have been working on with a couple of other colleagues. Complete in the sense that everything works the way it should, though of course, no project would be perfect if there weren’t a major issue with it. At 4:30 I was packing up what felt like my entire desk to come home with me. This issue was going need some major thought, and if I am going to present it on Tuesday I need all the extra time I can get to go work through it. I must say though I am quite proud of myself. Having been an assistant buyer before joining my current company I would have never thought that I would be capable of building a strategy that changes everything about the way things are done, and several tools to make that strategy work. So far it seems to be going over very well. There is still a month in which things could south, but until then I will take my victories for all they are worth as I achieve them. Saturday will be a girl’s day, my sister, my kiddos and I will be headed to a theatre near us to watch the much tweeted UP. They are as excited as am I. He will be at the Playboy Jazz Festival, a thing with his mother. It all works out pretty well, since it gives me a day alone to pick up a Father’s Day gift and card. It’s going to be an early morning, not out of the norm but none the less I should probably get to bed.


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Thursday, June 11, 2009

Mad for Plaid



Two weeks ago plaid was not something to be found in my closet. I actually told my sister that I wasn't into it. Well lets just say that I had been living under a rock for a quick minute. All of a sudden plaid is refreshing, done in various colors and silhouettes; I must have it in one form or another. Whether long sleeve, or short, tunic length or tucked in, plaid is something to go mad for this summer. The bonus is that you'll be able to wear your plaid pieces through fall! Take a look at some of my favorite styles.

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Friday, June 5, 2009

Series: Untitled Excerpts from My Life

6/1-6/5

Monday came and went like it never was. I don’t remember a thing about Monday. The routine remained intact up until Tuesday morning. And that’s when my week really started. Everything was the same until the car started to move. And then she told me she may be going to Arizona. Her dad, my grandfather was in the hospital. Having been rushed to ER sometime around 3am due to unbearable fiery chest pains, I thought for sure he had a heart attack. By looking at him you would think he was frail, and so in my mind this was going to be it. Time stood still. I tried not to think about it but an old band mate and friend of his had just passed a few weeks prior and it only seemed logical that he would not be too far off. My thoughts were far too morbid and so I tried to focus on work, though it did little in the way of distracting me. Toggling between internet, email and excel spreadsheets, I just could not focus. I did something I have never done since I was a child. I called my grandmother. The sound of her voice launched a baseball sized lump of emotion to the back of my throat, and I tried to hide my fear as she maintained her strength. How was it possible? How could she be so calm and even a little humorous when her husband could very well die? As bad as that was it wasn’t the worst part. She proceeded to tell me that she was praying to go first. That she didn’t want to be the one that was left to deal with picking up the pieces. And then the tears began to wet my cheeks. How could she even think such a thing let alone consider now the appropriate time to tell me that she was well ready to pass on. I tried to put a smile in my voice as she told me how much more stressful my aunt was being for her. A known cry baby, she was not the one you wanted to have around in the time of crisis. The upside to all of this, for my granny at least, was that she could run every machine in the house at the same time. She had come home t o shower and change, but before heading back to my popops she would be running the dishwasher, washing machine, dryer and A.C. all at the same time. That brought a true smile to my face. She was amazing; could I be as strong as she was? There had to be some trace of her toughness in my genes somewhere. Hopefully I will be able to locate just at the moment I need it most. For now I would rely on her so long as she was willing to share. I told her I loved her before hanging up the phone. I was unsuccessful at trying to focus on work the rest of the day. I had to start over Wednesday already two days behind, during month end. Not good for me. It was easier though since we all got word that not only had my grandfather not had a heart attack but that he was in perfectly good health! How that was possible I have no idea but I was grateful none the less. It was back to comp reports, and top ten’s for me. Markdowns were taken two weeks prior which meant adding an additional report to my deck. It wasn’t such a big deal since by this point my reports were set up to calculate themselves for the most part. It took me half a day to get them all done and ready to be published.

The latter part of my days this week and in the upcoming weeks are being spent in our mock store down stairs. This means 3-4 hours of standing, opening boxes, sorting through samples, merchandising the collection and getting everything entered into what will become my assortment sheet. I am so grateful every time this buy season comes around, that I actually have experience in building assortments that make sense, and merchandise as a collection. Having learned the importance of balancing customer choices, trend relevance, and customer base, this part of my job is the most appealing and the easiest. Merchandise is what I breathe, and it’s not about the single piece that makes me crazy, but the way each piece depends on the next in order to speak a singular, cohesive message of style, and culture to each customer that walks by and in our stores. I’ve learned that people do not shop for tees, or jeans, or shoes, but an image; a sense of style. Customers depend on retailers to tell them what they need, what they want to look like. A retailer who can’t do that won’t succeed – so it’s my job to make sure that the product I selected does just that. Based on the feedback from the men’s and women’s merchandise managers in our design department, I’m on track. A job well done is always gratifying. Now I just have to make sure that my assortment fits into what is usually a very tiny box (for buyers anyway) called an Open To Buy. Buyers always want more than we can afford, luckily I never have a problem cutting unnecessary fat out of a collection. I will deal with that when I get there though.

I have got to get some sleep – though my body seems to have adjusted well to this 4 ½ hours routine thing I’ve got going on. Between my kids, work, blogging, my man and I there just isn’t enough time in the day.


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Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Summer Blues

Summer comes down with the blues this year and it can be in any shade and form. Solid or print, denim or silk, rich royal or cornstarch pastel; blue is the must have right now color of the season. Even better – this color is going to get you through the beginning of 2010 at the very least. The color popped up on just about every runway starting with the Pre-Fall 2009 RTW shows. Take a look at some of my favorite looks


Runways from Top Right:
Printed blouse with paper bag short, Thakoon Resort 2010; Blue bell skirt dress with printed bodice, Erdem Fall 2009; Skirt and coat, Etro Fall 2009; Sheer blue dress, Christian Dior Fall 2009; Printed dress, Louis Vuitton Fall 2009; Boat neck 3/4 sleeve dress, Blumarine Fall 2009.

This summer the must have color is any shade of blue. Or like the Lanvin image to the left and combination of blue hues. Rich, pale, washed out, royal, or oceanic there are plenty of options in any category you choose. Come down with the blues this summer and take this hot runway trend to real life any day of the week.


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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Series: Untitled Excerpts from My Life

5/30-5/31

I was up at like 7:30 am on Saturday morning. I just can’t seem to sleep in anymore. It doesn’t help any that my mind races at such a speed that going to bed early the night before is an impossibility. It was moving day, so I skipped my usual morning jog. I must have lain in the bed for an hour – dressed and ready to go to my mom and sisters place to help pack their ish. I can’t think of anything more that I hate doing more than moving (at this moment at least) and there I was packing and moving someone else. And while I complain now, I have to admit it was a very amusing day spent with my little sister. Something I am not able to do as often as I might like to. Singing, dancing, and boxing stuff up. I didn’t realize how much work I actually put in until I went home and the back pain started to kick in. And then I was that much more exhausted but instead of going to sleep like I should have, I had another late night with my love. So many things are coming back to me lately. My love of arts, music; I’ve caught up on all sorts of stuff that takes me way back and I even whipped up a quick sketch at my sisters. It feels good to know I have not lost myself in all of the routine obligations that have become my life. And about obligations, I made a decision Saturday about my career – full speed ahead! We’ll see where that leads and when but for now I can be excited for what may be. The upcoming week is not one to look forward to, but with every challenge there is an accomplishment just waiting to make be known. I intend to find each one and firmly shake its hand. 


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Jon & Kate Saying All The Wrong Things


Monday nights episode of  Jon & Kate + 8 was choc full of stuff a couple looking to make things work should never do.

Lets begin with what seems to be the recurring theme of this season : "I am here for my kids."
Translation : I don't want to be the bad guy who ups and leaves their family in pursuit of selfish endeavors. So, I'm gonna stay here and make my partner miserable until they decide they can't take it anymore. Why should I have to be the villain anyway?
It's a classic move among women who feel like they have put in too much work and too much time to be the one who walks away from a family. 
Results: Passive aggressive as most women are, they use behavior, and emotionally draining tactics to give their man no reason to stay. Neither one believes that their children will hold together the marriage, but who wants to let their kids down in such a traumatic way?

Division of family time when the family is still together : "When she goes away I stay with the kids, when I go away she stays with the kids. The kids should always have 'a' parent with them."
Translation : The tension between the two of us is so thick that we can't comfortably or amicably take care of kids together.Rather than try to front like a loving couple and risk a  big blow up in front of the children, we would rather not deal with it. 
Results: Huge mistake if you are really trying to get it together. Visibly telling your children and loved ones that family time will no longer include mommy and daddy but one or the other at any given time. 

Solo vacations, especially on  your mates birthday: making any version of your personal interests more important than your spouse no matter what the occasion. 
Translation: I don't care.
Results: Allowing for each parent to develop such strong outside interests (not to be confused with hobbies) solo deepens the divide between two people, making it appear more natural and seemingly acceptable to 'grow in separate directions.'

Jon & Kate have been a great example to families everywhere and what they are going through now is called real life. Is it still possible that this family will be able to rebuild on much stronger foundation due to the tests they now face, of course. But it wont happen with the type of behavior being displayed on TLC. I think everyone is wishing them luck, and praying for a blessing that will turn this thing around for them, but in the end Jon & Kate will have to make the decision for themselves.


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Monday, June 1, 2009

Summer:

Wears Like A Little Knit Dress.

Styles from Counter Clockwise: Drawstring dress, American Apparel; Ballet Deep Scoop Neck Dress, Kimchi Blue; Sleeveless tri-blend pleated dress with pockets, American Apparel; Ponte tank dress, Silence&Noise

Maxis are all over the place; runways, sidewalks, boardwalks, in the office and running errands. That’s great for the girl who is at least 5'7" – but what about the rest of us? The girls who are more likely in the 5'2"ish range. Lacking in the splendor of a long frame needed to make a maxi dress really work? Well - I have put a lot of thought into this one, as I love an easy dress in the summer time, and this summer my go to something will be a little knit dress. Perfect for summer in all of its light weight glory, the little knit dress comes in a variety of shapes, fabrics, and colors. Throw on a quick tee shirt dress cinched in with a skinny belt for the weekends, or take day into night with my personal favorite – the ballerina dress. Whichever you chose be sure to go for a slightly shorter hem line than your normal knit dress; just over tunic length. Pick one up and wear your summer knit dress in real life.


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